Performance issues on one build that affects every player playing with me???

As we all know, lag and fps drops are common and they are widely accepted as just a part of POE2. And I thougth I had accepted it too. Until I started playing a toxic growth build. I blow up enemies with toxic growth and heralds activate which is my clear. Can anyone help me??? It not only affects my gameplay but also my party members game performance as well. Please for the love of god can I just play the game normally. I'm not sure how to submit a video but I have plenty of me suffering through a map.

When I play with others we all will lag like crazy and I refuse to believe everyone's computers cant handle this build.

yeah i requested some form of 'vanishing dye' esp for heralds. the game is actually pleasant to play if some of those effects are not present. but looking at poe1 i wouldn't get my hopes up

I think its something to do with trinity cause I made a titan to play this build and it wasnt lagging at all.
Edit: It is trinity. I turned it off and everything was a lot smoother.