Im having constant server crashes, game freezes then lets me play again or logs me out

This time got it on video but I guess this is a known problem already.

Basicly every 3rd or 4th map I do the game suddenly freezes and I can only wait or click the game window and end task.. if I wait it takes usually around 30-60seconds for it to reload the entire map WITH FOG OF WAR and lets me play again but then other times it takes 2 minutes to load and OTHER times it loads and loads and then logs me out of my account.. I need to log back in and while entering my character it starts to load the map and again logs me out of the account.
THE ONLY THING that works is for me to delete 1 portal and go to hideout.. AND re-enter my map through map device and.. IT WORKS.. up until I get to the place I had the crash and then it crashes again.. I thought maybe ABYSS only bug but nah happened to me here in this video too:

Recording stopped while I was frozen, I started recording again once it loaded me back in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jau8v6Xbj1s


Win10
13900K
4090
64gb ram 4 sticks not same brand